The Change is coming

The Change is coming
(Tradition of Marriage)

Marriage simple is two hearts combing as one. “Marriage general means a social contract between two individuals that unites their lives legally, economically, and emotionally.”(Sheri & Bob Stritof, About.com). Married traditions are becoming less important in our changing of society.

Traditional marriage has served all nations and all cultures well since the Garden of Eden. Marriage is a very ancient idea. The Bible suggests it goes right back to Adam and Eve, who were 'made for each other' in (Gen 2) Jesus teaching on marriage, is exclusive, unbreakable and forging a new family unit drew on this original blueprint.

Marriage is my family is not so hot; many people in my family are the Christian type, they will arrange a person that they think is right for you. They do not care how crazy he or she is as long as they fit their Christian tradition you will get married. My sister and I could not let our family tell us who to marry it is our choice and our life. Here’s an example: “I couldn’t let my parent arrange my Indian marriage from Indiana. I would have to find my own suitable boy. Or perhaps even an unsuitable one.” (Jame 382). Marriage is our own choice we pick and choice who we want to be with marriage is not the same now.

Even though, marriage tradition is about our culture, region, and law, many people are not biding by that tradition at all. Homosexual are among those people. Homosexual do not celebrate the tradition way of marriage. Do to the fact that they are not a loud to get married in some states. According to Paul Varnell in, Do Gays want to marry, “Keep in mind that some gays are not allowed to marry at all. Gays and lesbians in the U.S. military are not allowed to marry. In most Protestant denominations gay and lesbian clergy may not marry and keep their jobs.” Still yet, heterosexuals in those same positions marry in high numbers anyways because they know change has come and their still more to come.

Another change in tradition marriage is divorces; it is running traditional marriage on it last leg. Divorce is the legal breakup of a marriage. Like every major life change, divorce is stressful. It affects finances, living arrangements, household jobs, schedules and more. Termination of a traditional marriage that is canceling the legal duties and responsibilities of marriage. The economy is also helping running the traditional marriage. Do to the fact that losing your job is tough for both men and women, especially if the man strongly identifies with the traditional role of provider.

Will divorces do runs in my family; they cannot pick the right person if it kills them. We have a lot of baby dada and baby mama problem then the whole word put together. Do not let us get together at someone wedding all we hear is you had better make sure you love him, do not let he cheats on you. The whole thing is crazy. People are suppose to work hard to not get divorces, they push the tradition marriage vows out the way because it is the easy way out. According to Ellen DeGeneres, in this is how we live, “On the other hand, some things that don’t need to be easier are being made easier (640). That statement is just like how divorce is in my family. It is not suppose to be easy it suppose to be hard so you can work on the marriage.

The economy is also helping running the traditional marriage. Do to the fact that losing your job is tough for both men and women, especially if the man strongly identifies with the traditional role of a provider. The employed partner, meanwhile, may become frustrated by the spouse's lack of get-up-and-go on the job and the home fronts. Both partners may find themselves more critical of their spouse than before, which in turn makes them unhappier with their relationship and that can turn in to divorce.

Despite all of the changes in tradition marriage, like Homosexuals, divorce, economy, and Family. Married traditions are becoming less important, but change can be good and it can be bad. Couple looking to get married, the most important thing in this kind of change in tradition marriage is to fulfill your life requirement.